my biggest fear is falling and dying in the shower and my family finding me naked
Anonymous said: Congrats about the birth of your baby! Did being an amputee effect the birthing process? Did you wear your prosthetic?
Thank you!!! I did wear my leg because my labor and delivery were so much faster than I ever expected. Also, my midwife thought that the leverage would be helpful when it came to pushing which I agree it was I don’t know what it would have been like without it. Lastly, really I had a magical easy birth- I broke my water forty minutes before her delivery and there was only twelve minutes of pushing and it was only two big pushes and she was out.
I want to see fat women portrayed as desirable & sexually autonomous
I want to see trans women portrayed as desirable & sexually autonomous
I want to see women of color portrayed as desirable & sexually autonomous
I want to see women with disabilities portrayed as desirable & sexually autonomous
It shouldn’t be considered a favor to be found attractive, & it sure as hell isnt a compliment to be fetishized. I want more fucking media that acknowledges that. fuck.
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Anonymous said: If your prosthetic broke at work what did you do? How did you get home or do anything at work?
I luckily have a great roommate who had a day off, so he brought my crutches to work and took my broken leg home for me. It is nice having people you can count on when you need it.
This happened to me once. Mortifying but I too luckily had someone who could bring me crutches and care for me
I’m always curious about different peoples techniques. What are yours?
Wrap it up! At first its a million times worse but then it kind of fades out.
Also I am a huge fan of soaking my limb in salt waters or finding distractions
Sometimes I wish I had two feet so I could tangle mine with my husbands and take those cute feet pictures and then add the babe and take hers too. But then I remember how nice and cozy it is to wrap my limb in his lap and know secretly how few people know that joy and its all okay. Its almost like I’m at the advantage
Anonymous said: Would you give up getting your updated prosthetic leg in 18years if it meant the difference for getting your child through college financially?
This seems like an unfair question but here’s the thing…
Would any mom give up luxuries to help see her child through higher education if that’s something they want? The simple answer is yes.
But it depends how desperately I needed an update on something, as I doubt that would be the first thing to go. Obviously we would move things around to help said child pursue their dreams. Maybe my husband and I wouldn’t take vacations that year or maybe our own creative pursuits may have less budget. I’m just not sure how much not maintaining my prosthetics, potentially disabling myself further would help since its hard to financially see that far in the future and its also pretty morbid to think about.